And... You Are?
I had the opportunity to speak to a professional group outside the world of banking recently.
It can be fun to get in front of people who have no idea who you are or where you came from.
I have long suggested to leaders that it is both healthy and beneficial to put themselves in rooms where no one knows who they are.
Making a business development call on a prospect who can honestly ask, “And... who are you? What do you do?” can keep you humble while also keeping you sharp.
In this most recent case, I was told that the gentleman running the session “might” say a few words about me from my bio…which the attendees did not have.
It turns out the words he said from my bio were my name.
That was it.
He mentioned that they had listened to feedback from past years about bringing in different speakers. So that’s what they were doing.
He told them I was going to be different and then said, “I’ll turn it over to David.” And... that was it.
A room full of folks, well over half of them with laptops open in front of them, and many of those not even looking up while the emcee was talking, were already zoning out.
One person clapped.
That’s worse than no one clapping because it sounds... sad.
It reminded me how easy it is to begin taking things for granted.
You get introduced.
The audience claps.
You thank them and start talking.
At that moment, I began laughing inside. This was either going to be a funny success story or a funny failure story to tell down the line.
Thankfully, things went very well, and lots of folks came up afterward throughout the day to comment on various things.
Many connected with how similar the issues they deal with in leading teams, adapting to change, and handling problems were to those in “my world.”
The more I listened to people describe their challenges, the more I realized that while industries may differ, people don't.
Every organization is trying to attract good people, develop them, motivate them, and help them succeed.
In the end, the experience reminded me of something I preach.
The world is not looking for us.
Customers and prospects don't owe us their attention.
Our job is to work every day to earn it.
The moment we start assuming people will listen to us because of our job title or reputation is the moment we begin to slip.
How will you earn folks' attention today?







